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Rick, I am heartsick and so very sad. The bond and love you had with Brandy was so clear. I am sending you much love and many hugs.
tamara
Hello again everyone.
Yesterday was a bit of a better day. I was able to close out a number of Brandy related issues and her toys, beds and dishes went to the local shelter though her favorites are packed away for later.
I cannot thank you enough for the support. I know all of you have been through so much and it really pained me to bring the sad news about Brandy.
I wish you could have known her. I have been thinking about how to quantify what made her so special. She had an immense personality and huge intelligence.
It wasn’t intelligence like you see with Border Collies that are capable of being trained to do anything but much more human.
She absolutely knew what you wanted but that really had no bearing on her behavior. She also had a unique knack for bending human will to her bidding :)
We called her belligerent but it wasn’t just being stubborn. She had free will and was fully aware of it. If she wanted, you could see her as the sweetest little pup on the planet (all the doctors and vets absolutely adored her ) but if she wanted you to do something, you really didn’t have a choice. It wasn’t about us training her (for the most part training bored her since she picked everything up easily) it was much more about her training us.
We got her from a rescue shelter in Bellingham WA at 6 months. At the shelter she appeared to be timid but she immediately went to work establishing herself as alpha.
I previously told you about some of her health issues, but I wanted to make it clear that her personality would never tolerate sympathy. It was quite the opposite – she took everything thrown at her and owned it.
Brandy went blind at age 5 (Progressive Retinal Atrophy). It didn’t really slow her down.
Really she just became focused on scent and sound instead of sight, and everyone who met her would not believe she was blind (until she ran into them).
She knew she was blind, but she believed everyone else was also blind and that she had a better idea than anyone where we should go. She of course learned sound commands very well and I had a series of words and noises that she actually followed to avoid running into obstacles.
Researching her blindness led me to the Addison’s diagnosis and her health was massively improved after she started low dose Prednisone. Other than one incident she was 100% healthy from age 5 until the last few weeks.
I am finding that almost all of my routine centered around her. Avoiding obstacles like blackberry bushes on the trails, keeping an eye on her at all times so she doesn’t run into trees, soccer goalposts, curbs, making sure that kitchen drawers, dishwasher etc are never left open, moving obstacles on the floor.
I continuously feel like I should be doing something.
Yesterday was all about Ripley (the Weimaraner). I realized that Brandy’s brother hasn’t been given much attention, and not just over the past month due to Brandy being so high maintenance. So now he gets special attention. We did some training, went on several long walks and played with his toys.
He has always been quite aloof so I’m not sure he likes it. Oh well…
Hi Rick – I was away, so have only just caught up….. I am SO sorry to hear about Brandy. It is always, always, so very painful to lose them. We can fight this dreadful disease, but it is a difficult battle and sometimes we do lose them – as you so sadly have lost Brandy (and we too lost Honey not so long ago). But I’m glad you found the website and the support it can bring.
Take care of yourself, and your other dog
Lynda
xx
Hi Rick
What a story – she truly was an incredible dog with a strident personality who wrapped you round her little toe, I think. You have made me smile & cry at the same time. I am so sorry she didn’t make it, but my goodness I’m glad to read that she had such a great & enjoyable life, cared for by you – no-one could have done more for her than you & your family.
Please look after yourselves & the lovely Ripley & please keep in touch whenever you want to,
Love, Sheena, Worzel & Ollie xxx
Rick, I love hearing about Brandy, please share more of her stories when you can. She reminds me a bit of my Sierra, who I lost to hemangiosarcoma in 2011. I used to say that if Sierra had thumbs she would be the benevolent dictator of the universe and all would be well while she ruled. I am still so very sad and am sending you many hugs. Please give Ripley some scritchies from me — I’m sure he’ll be going through a period of adjustment as well, it’s wonderful that you have one another to go through it together.
tamara and ashki xoxoxox
Dear Rick,
I am so glad you told us a bit about Brandy. She sure was a special girl! Everybody deals with grief differently, I know that for me it really helped to talk about my dog. So please keep telling us Brandy stories if it helps YOU! I love dog stories!
I also had a Ripley when I came home without my AIHA dog. My Ripley is however a black Standard Poodle. Ripley and Kahlu grew up together. They were not related, Kahlu was my dog, Ripley a puppy from Canadian Guide Dogs for the Blind that I raised. Ripley was supposed to be with me for a couple of months to get socialized and learn basic manners. However he did not like the guiding training and was also chasing birds. So he came back to us. The last few days of Kahlu’s life, while we still had hope, Ripley would not leave his side. Looking back I realized he knew what was up. With Ripley I experienced for the first time a dog that is grieving. I was so glad to have him helping me through my grief. I hope that you and your Ripley are doing fine and can help each other. I was so happy to read that you are hiking and playing together! I think that sometimes we think a dog is aloof because WE are not connected. I believe with lots of playing and spending quality time together, Ripley might surprise you:)
Best wishes and scratch your Ripley on the chin for me!
Brigitte